The Blog
Rethinking the ‘Autistic Social Skills Deficit’ Narrative: New Research & Perspectives
The idea that autistic people have a social skills deficit is rooted in outdated and neurotypical-centered perspectives that fail to recognize the validity of autistic communication styles. Instead of forcing autistic individuals to conform to neurotypical norms, a more neuro-affirming approach acknowledges that autistic socialization is different, not deficient, and thrives in environments that accommodate diverse ways of connecting. By fostering mutual understanding, reducing masking pressure, and creating inclusive social spaces, we can challenge the deficit narrative and support autistic people in forming meaningful, authentic relationships on their own terms.
Who Really Profits from ‘Treating’ Autism?
The autism industrial complex is a multi-billion-dollar system that profits from framing autism as a disorder that needs treatment, rather than a natural neurodevelopmental difference that requires acceptance and support. Industries such as ABA therapy, pharmaceuticals, and autism research prioritize compliance-based interventions, symptom management, and prevention studies while neglecting services that would genuinely improve autistic people’s quality of life. To dismantle this harmful system, funding and decision-making must shift away from non-autistic-led organizations and toward autistic-led advocacy, accessibility initiatives, and community-based support.
Self-Diagnosis vs. Formal Diagnosis: Why Both Are Valid and Necessary
Self-diagnosis and formal diagnosis are both valid paths to understanding neurodivergence, with formal diagnosis providing medical recognition and access to accommodations, while self-diagnosis is often necessary due to systemic barriers in healthcare. Many individuals, especially women, nonbinary people, and people of color, struggle to receive formal diagnoses due to biases, financial costs, and lack of trained professionals. Rather than dismissing self-diagnosis, the focus should be on making diagnosis more accessible, challenging medical biases, and ensuring all neurodivergent individuals receive the validation and support they need.
How to Talk to Family Members Who Dismiss Your Diagnosis or Self-Identification
Many neurodivergent individuals face dismissal from family members when sharing their diagnosis or self-identification, often due to misinformation, internalized ableism, or cultural stigma. This article explores strategies for navigating these conversations, including providing factual information, setting firm boundaries, and recognizing when disengagement is necessary for self-preservation. Ultimately, seeking validation from supportive communities and embracing self-acceptance can be more empowering than trying to change the minds of unwilling family members.
The Role of Identity in the Autistic Experience: Why Finding a Label Can Be Life-Changing
Finding and embracing an autistic identity can be a transformative experience, providing clarity, self-acceptance, and a sense of belonging, whether through formal diagnosis or self-identification. Many autistic individuals face barriers to diagnosis and validation, making community connections and self-advocacy essential in navigating identity development. Understanding autism as an integral part of oneself can improve mental health, reduce masking, and allow individuals to redefine success on their own terms.